31 Days of Praying for Your Husband
“She does him good . . .” (Proverbs 31:12a)
Bless your husband by praying for him! The Apostle Paul
instructed all Christians to pray for one another
(Ephesians 6:18). This includes wives’ responsibility and
privilege to pray for their husbands. Earnest prayer for
your husband is good for him, for you and the spiritual health
of your home (Proverbs 31:11-12).
instructed all Christians to pray for one another
(Ephesians 6:18). This includes wives’ responsibility and
privilege to pray for their husbands. Earnest prayer for
your husband is good for him, for you and the spiritual health
of your home (Proverbs 31:11-12).
Satan desires to destroy your husband, especially his character
and his leadership in your relationship. Trust God
through prayer as you daily surrender your husband and
marriage to theLord’s wise, loving care.
and his leadership in your relationship. Trust God
through prayer as you daily surrender your husband and
marriage to theLord’s wise, loving care.
Day 1 Pray that your husband will grow spiritually and
consider his accountability before the Lord. Pray that he
will guard his heart by developing spiritual disciplines—
Bible reading and study, prayer, meditation, scripture
memorization, etc. (2 Peter 3:18; Prov. 4:23)
consider his accountability before the Lord. Pray that he
will guard his heart by developing spiritual disciplines—
Bible reading and study, prayer, meditation, scripture
memorization, etc. (2 Peter 3:18; Prov. 4:23)
Day 3 Pray that your husband will be humble and quick
to agree with God about his sin. Pray that his heart will be
tender toward the voice of the Lord. (Ps. 51:2-4; Micah 6:8)
to agree with God about his sin. Pray that his heart will be
tender toward the voice of the Lord. (Ps. 51:2-4; Micah 6:8)
Day 4 Pray that your husband will grow in leadership skills
in your relationship—protecting and providing for you.
Pray that he will lead you wisely and love you sacrificially,
so that God will be glorified in your marriage.
(Eph. 5:25-29;Col. 3:19)
in your relationship—protecting and providing for you.
Pray that he will lead you wisely and love you sacrificially,
so that God will be glorified in your marriage.
(Eph. 5:25-29;Col. 3:19)
Day 5 Pray that your husband will be faithful to his wedding vows.
Pray that he will have a desire to cultivate your relationship as a sign
of his loyalty and commitment to you, and as a picture of
Pray that he will have a desire to cultivate your relationship as a sign
of his loyalty and commitment to you, and as a picture of
Christ’s love for the Church. (Prov. 20:6; Gen. 2:24)
Day 6 Pray that your husband will love righteousness and hate wickedness,
especially the evils of the culture. Pray that he will recognize and avoid
wickedness in his own life, and if necessary, take a clear, strong stand
against evil. (Prov. 27:12; John 17:15; 1 Cor. 10:12-13)
especially the evils of the culture. Pray that he will recognize and avoid
wickedness in his own life, and if necessary, take a clear, strong stand
against evil. (Prov. 27:12; John 17:15; 1 Cor. 10:12-13)
Day 7 Pray that your husband will safeguard his heart against inappropriate
relationships with the opposite sex. Pray that his heart will be pure and
undivided in his commitment to you. (Prov. 6:23-24, 26; Rom. 13:14)
relationships with the opposite sex. Pray that his heart will be pure and
undivided in his commitment to you. (Prov. 6:23-24, 26; Rom. 13:14)
Day 8 Pray that your husband will work hard to provide for your family,
to the best of his ability. Pray that the character qualities necessary for a
successful career and ministry will be a growing part of his character—
persistence, decisiveness, strength, an analytical mind, organizational skills,
positive relationships with people, determination, etc. (Rom. 12:11; 1 Cor. 15:58)
to the best of his ability. Pray that the character qualities necessary for a
successful career and ministry will be a growing part of his character—
persistence, decisiveness, strength, an analytical mind, organizational skills,
positive relationships with people, determination, etc. (Rom. 12:11; 1 Cor. 15:58)
Day 9 Pray that your husband handle finances wisely, will have discernment
concerning budgeting and investments, and will be a good steward of his
money in regard to giving to the Lord’s work. Pray that money will not become
a source of discord in your family. (Prov. 23:4-5; Rom. 12:13; Heb. 13:5)
concerning budgeting and investments, and will be a good steward of his
money in regard to giving to the Lord’s work. Pray that money will not become
a source of discord in your family. (Prov. 23:4-5; Rom. 12:13; Heb. 13:5)
Day 10 Pray that your husband will cultivate strong integrity, and not compromise
his convictions. Pray that his testimony will be genuine, that he will be honest in
his business dealings, and will never do anything that he needs to hide from others.
(Prov. 20:7; 1 Tim. 1:5, 3:7; Eph. 6:10-12)
his convictions. Pray that his testimony will be genuine, that he will be honest in
his business dealings, and will never do anything that he needs to hide from others.
(Prov. 20:7; 1 Tim. 1:5, 3:7; Eph. 6:10-12)
Day 11 Pray that your husband will have a humble, teachable spirit and a servant’s
heart before the Lord. Pray that he will listen to God and desire to do His will.
(Prov. 15:33; Eph. 6:6)
heart before the Lord. Pray that he will listen to God and desire to do His will.
(Prov. 15:33; Eph. 6:6)
Day 12 Pray that your husband will yield his sexual drive to the Lord and practice
self control. Pray that your sexual intimacy together will be fresh, positive, and a
reflection of selfless love. (Prov. 5:15, 18; 1 Cor. 7:3; Song of Solomon 7:10)
self control. Pray that your sexual intimacy together will be fresh, positive, and a
reflection of selfless love. (Prov. 5:15, 18; 1 Cor. 7:3; Song of Solomon 7:10)
Day 13 Pray that your husband use practical skills to build your family and make
wise decisions for your welfare. Pray that he will serve unselfishly.
(Gal. 5:13; Phil. 2:3-4)
wise decisions for your welfare. Pray that he will serve unselfishly.
(Gal. 5:13; Phil. 2:3-4)
Day 14 Pray that your husband will speak words that build you and your family,
and reflect a heart of love. Pray that he will not use filthy language.
(Prov. 18:21; Eph. 4:29)
and reflect a heart of love. Pray that he will not use filthy language.
(Prov. 18:21; Eph. 4:29)
Day 15 Pray that your husband will choose his friends wisely. Pray that God
will bring him men who will encourage his accountability before God, and
will not lead him into sin.(Prov. 13:20; Prov. 27:17)
will bring him men who will encourage his accountability before God, and
will not lead him into sin.(Prov. 13:20; Prov. 27:17)
Day 16 Pray that your husband will choose healthy, God-honoring activities.
Pray that he will not live in bondage to any questionable habits or hobbies,
but that he will experience freedom in holiness as he yields to the Spirit’s control.
(1 Cor. 6:12, 10:31; 2 Tim. 2:4)
Pray that he will not live in bondage to any questionable habits or hobbies,
but that he will experience freedom in holiness as he yields to the Spirit’s control.
(1 Cor. 6:12, 10:31; 2 Tim. 2:4)
Day 17 Pray that your husband will enjoy his manliness as he patterns his life
after Christ and strong men in the faith. Pray for his physical, emotional, mental,
social and spiritual strength. (Eph. 3:16; 1 Peter 2:21; 1 Cor. 10:11)
after Christ and strong men in the faith. Pray for his physical, emotional, mental,
social and spiritual strength. (Eph. 3:16; 1 Peter 2:21; 1 Cor. 10:11)
Day 18 Pray that your husband will have an eternal perspective—living in light
of eternity. Pray that he will reject materialism and temporal values and put God
first in his life. (Matt. 6:33; Deut. 6:5; Eph. 5:16; Ps. 90:12)
of eternity. Pray that he will reject materialism and temporal values and put God
first in his life. (Matt. 6:33; Deut. 6:5; Eph. 5:16; Ps. 90:12)
Day 19 Pray that your husband will be patient and a man of peace. Pray that he
will not give in to anger, but will allow the Holy Spirit to control his responses.
(Rom. 14:19; Ps. 34:14)
will not give in to anger, but will allow the Holy Spirit to control his responses.
(Rom. 14:19; Ps. 34:14)
Day 20 Pray that your husband will yield his mind and thoughts to the Lord.
Pray that he will not entertain immoral or impure thoughts, and that he will
resist the temptation to indulge in pornography. (Prov. 27:12; 2 Cor. 10:5)
Pray that he will not entertain immoral or impure thoughts, and that he will
resist the temptation to indulge in pornography. (Prov. 27:12; 2 Cor. 10:5)
Day 21 Pray that your husband will learn how to relax in the Lord and, in
his greatest times of stress, find joy and peace in his relationship with God.
Pray that he will submit his schedule to the Lord. (Neh. 8:10; Prov. 17:22; Ps. 16:11)
his greatest times of stress, find joy and peace in his relationship with God.
Pray that he will submit his schedule to the Lord. (Neh. 8:10; Prov. 17:22; Ps. 16:11)
Day 22 Pray that your husband will practice forgiveness in your relationship
and with others. Pray that he will recognize any roots of bitterness, and yield
any resentment and unforgiving attitudes to the Lord. (Eph. 4:32; Heb. 12:15)
and with others. Pray that he will recognize any roots of bitterness, and yield
any resentment and unforgiving attitudes to the Lord. (Eph. 4:32; Heb. 12:15)
Day 23 Pray that your husband will be a good father—disciplining his children
wisely and loving them unconditionally. If he is not a father, pray that he will
find a young man to mentor in the things of the Lord. (Eph. 6:4; Col. 3:21; 2 Tim. 2:1-2)
wisely and loving them unconditionally. If he is not a father, pray that he will
find a young man to mentor in the things of the Lord. (Eph. 6:4; Col. 3:21; 2 Tim. 2:1-2)
Day 24 Pray that your husband will have a balanced life—that he will balance
work and play. Pray that he will fear God, but also gain favor with people he
knows at work and church. (Luke 2:52; Prov. 13:15)
work and play. Pray that he will fear God, but also gain favor with people he
knows at work and church. (Luke 2:52; Prov. 13:15)
Day 26 Pray that your husband will discover and live his God-given purpose.
Pray that he will offer all his dreams to the Lord, and pursue only those goals
that will bring God glory and count for eternity. (Jer. 29:11; 1 Cor. 10:31)
Pray that he will offer all his dreams to the Lord, and pursue only those goals
that will bring God glory and count for eternity. (Jer. 29:11; 1 Cor. 10:31)
Day 27 Pray that your husband will understand the importance of taking care
of his body—the temple of the Holy Spirit—for the glory of God. Pray that he
will practice self-control by making wise food choices, and get sufficient exercise
to stay healthy. (Rom. 12:1-2; 1 Cor. 6:19-20, 9:27)
of his body—the temple of the Holy Spirit—for the glory of God. Pray that he
will practice self-control by making wise food choices, and get sufficient exercise
to stay healthy. (Rom. 12:1-2; 1 Cor. 6:19-20, 9:27)
Day 28 Pray that your husband will be a man of prayer. Pray that he will seek
and pursue God in purposeful quiet times. (1 Thess. 5:17; Luke 22:46; James 5:16)
and pursue God in purposeful quiet times. (1 Thess. 5:17; Luke 22:46; James 5:16)
Day 29 Pray that your husband will surrender his time and talents to the Lord.
Pray that his spiritual gifts will be manifest in his career, at church, and in your home.
Pray that his spiritual gifts will be manifest in his career, at church, and in your home.
(Eph. 5:15-16; 1 Cor. 12:4, 7)
Day 30 Pray that your husband will serve God and others with pure motives.
Pray that he will obey the Lord from his heart, and glorify Him in everything.
Pray that he will obey the Lord from his heart, and glorify Him in everything.
Day 31 Pray that your husband will recognize the lies of the Enemy in his life.
Pray that his attitudes and actions will be guided by the truth as he brings his
thoughts into captivity to the Word of God. (John 8:44; 2 Cor. 10:4-5)
Pray that his attitudes and actions will be guided by the truth as he brings his
thoughts into captivity to the Word of God. (John 8:44; 2 Cor. 10:4-5)